A9ba7na wa a9ba7a almlk lellah!!

What the fuck is wrong with ppl!!!

Yesterday I woke up to a FWD on how courteous and kind it was of Israel to text the palestinians before bombing them.. Really!


And today I wake up to an email telling me not to waste my mercy on palestinians cuz they dug their own graves and some more bs along those lines..


And to those ppl who have the same standpoint I say:

Call me crazy but I do NOT think its courteous nor merciful that the israilis supposedly sent messages to civilians telling them to evacuate. The blood shed did not stop at any point when civilians were torn apart.

NO I don't think its "civil" and "merciful" to bomb an ambulance or children or mosques!


I DO feel merciful for all arabs, not just the palestinians, but for all arabs for having our hands tied and not doing anything about it.

I DO feel the agony of the mom who saw her kids slaughtered and the children who saw their families torn apart (literally).


And I am outraged at the israilis because:

First of all THEY DON'T BELONG THERE in the first place! Ppl seem to have forgotten that part.


Secondly: not only did hammas not live up to their end of the alleged ceasefire last time, israel did not loosen up its deadlock either.


And if all that is not enough, than I just feel sorry that humans are being killed. Does that make sense to you?!



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Love, relationships, and social taboos

"She's such a relationship junkie"





"It took her exactly one month to get over him"





"She was never in love with him to start with, falling in love isn't like changing shoes u know"



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Is there a certain number of times one is allowed to fall in love and into a relationship before it becomes socially unacceptable?



I would never use the terms "in love" and "socially acceptable" in one sentence if it was up to me, but it was brought to my attention recently that a lot of people strongly believe that love only happens once, that if it does happen more than the one time then it is morally incorrect.. Often referred to as a "fuck up".





From another standpoint, psychologically speaking, there are people who would rather fall in love and have long term relationships over and over again instead of stringing along a series of encounters not because of "the power of love" per se, but because they have a condition known as "relationship addiction" aka "codependence".





Having said that, why do people rush into categorising people and judging them on decisions they make in matters concerning none other but themselves? and more over, since when do we get to dictate the number of times one can or cannot fall in love?





Seriously, if a person is strong enough to gather the pieces after a breakup, and move on.. Why can't people accept it as "strength" rather than the equivalent of "love whoring"!!



And why is it that no matter how good a person is in all the other aspects of life, it gets flung right out the window the second her "relationship CV" is brought up?



(Ofcourse, this is not applicable to men over here, hence the "her"!)





- to venting! xx

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Stood Up!

YES! I have been stood up, and no it wasn't a date, obviously!


The point is, i had plans.. and my friend decided to nap for some time.. a quick siesta is what she called it.. and now.. she's not here!


SHE SLEPT! I guess? Cuz she's not picking up! ugh...


Quick poll

A- ditch her and do the movies with someone else
B- let it pass, ilnoam 9l6an is what they say!


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I'm Binging

The last three days were horrible.. stress wise.. and im doing all i can to stay positive.. after all, its what i do.. smile and move on! God forbid i open up to my friends and talk about whats REALLY bothering me.

anyways.. I AM BINGING!

and its not just that i'm eating a little more than i should.. its me not stopping.. i go out for brunch.. get back and do snacks with the mr.. go out again for dinner.. come back home and have some cookies and so on and so forth. It goes on and on and ON!


Polyphagia, is what my friends call it..


Emotional eating is what it is.

i wonder how much longer i can stuff my face without it actually popping?

and my personal trainer is going nuts, she keeps calling me but i come up with the stupidest excuses ever.. ah well...


- to getting over it.. SOON! :(