Sometimes its good to have a moment alone, no BBM, no friends around, no distractions. And just reflect. Reflection is an important part of growth, of making sure that you are where you want to be and that you're on the right track. That you're "neutralized" as we used to call it back in the flying days, always make sure the trim tabs are in neutral position.
After all, its all about balance.
Its about making sure that your core is where its supposed to be, centralized and adjusted to suit YOU. Your life, your values, your beliefs. How you decide to live your life, who you need to be in it and in whatever direction you see it going.
Its about finding what works for you, and making it happen.
So take a moment, step back and look at the big picture every once in a while.