Friday, June 13, 2008

Damn!

You know what's worse than no longer clicking with someone u used to have the greatest of times with?



Hanging out with that same person and having bland conversations devoid of anything resembling what u used to share, and forcing it.



Why the doggedness when there are no common grounds left?



This post is a result of 27 mins of pure torture.



I really hate faking it!



- to less forced smiles xx


Update: i need one of those >>




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23 comments:

shoosha said...

"You know what's worse than no longer clicking with someone u used to have the greatest of times with?"

totally knows how it feels.

The Masquerader said...

yea well, whenever thats the case, i talk about it with that someone, but then again, thats just me

Fastidious Babe said...

shoosha: yeah.. not the best of feelings...


the masquerader: talking about it should help.. i love "talking about it" its just that not everyone gets how important "talking about it" is..

Ansam said...

That "WE NEED TO TALK" postit is priceless LOL

People change with time I guess!! Sometimes its good... and sometimes it sux!

purelyorchid said...

wai3 I hate when that happens... it's like "I wish we could go back to the way we where"... and not talking about it only creates more awkward silence and torture... allah i3eenich

Fastidious Babe said...

ansam: yeah.. i would love to get my hands on some! xx

purelyorchid: yes.. totally sux!

Baroque said...

how about trying to reach someone who won't answer anything for no apparent reason at all?

tres worse than growing apart..

i guess its the first cut off step of this whole "no longer clicking with someone u use to have the greatest of time with"..

to un-forced smiles, picking up calls, and being courteous for a change..

Fastidious Babe said...

baroque: picking up when someone calls is just common courtesy! people who fail to have those basic skills are really not worth perusing! respect is Very important in a relationship..

Baroque said...

FB, did i mention that u rock?
yup, i know that, but thats when we go back to the "someone that you used to have the greatest times with", and this takes you then straight to the fact that you still like them..

yup, 3ala wazin, "why do you have to make things so complicated?" a la Avril Lavigne..

lol ;*

Fastidious Babe said...

Aww baroque thanx babe.. seriously though.. people "u like" have to be worthy! i'm very clear cut that way!

just chill babe.. there's always the good, the bad and the fugly.. xx

Big Pearls said...

I've experienced it with a friend..it is sad.

Peony said...

aa7. totally know the feeling.. yes, torture indeed. especially when you try so hard to make a convo and they not giving you anythin! u5.. torture indeed.

Fastidious Babe said...

big pearls: not sad.. just very irritating..


peony: i knooow! its like MAKE IT STOP NOW!

Delicately Realistic said...

Happened to me.

I feel so nervous and uneasy and uncomfortable.

ĐǻñĎõøðñ said...

i know wat u mean...and i freaking hate it,
what i hate more though is when someone avoids you for no reason at all and with no explanations at all, and then when you run into them, they act the same way u said with the awkward convos

i keep wondering why i have freinds who have a problem with explanations!!

(ps: if you get a hold of that form for the post-its, let me know. im thinking of copying the picture and having some made for me, considering my idiot freinds will never make the move!)

The Masquerader said...

ull find the post-its here http://www.knockknock.biz/

Ruby Woo said...

I'm having that with my highschool friends. We used to be so close, but since we got into different uni's, everytime we meet up its akward.
I don't want us to be over. I wanna go back to the way we were.

ladybird said...

i know exactly how u feel, once broken cannot be fixed, i have the same situation with a person who used 2 b my soulmate as she puts it, and now we cant talk! i look into her eyes and i know there's something but nothing is the same again,

it sucks i know! but this is life!

Shoush said...

Maybe this means that wat u 2 had was not something gr8 to begin with. Maybe u 2 where blinded by something (like emotions) in the beginning and now after time has passed, things are becoming clearer. Just a thot.

PinkChampagne said...

Im proud you managed to keep it to a minimum of 27 minutes lol xx

enchanteurs said...

yeah i know how that feels like ****!!! ya3ni lama tkoneen u tried everything possible to make things work bas mako fayda , mako shay irid mithel makan... SUCKS!:( hope everything is ok tho

Mi said...

What's worse is seeing a person like Fastidious Babe complaining about not being able to talk The Talk, and effing need to get one of those post-its..!

Fastidious Babe said...

delicately realistic: i know.. major awkwardness!

dandoon: sometimes people just feel that avoiding it is better than actually confronting the problem.. either that or they just don't care enough to aruge about it!


The Masquerader: lol thanx!


Ruby Woo: Times change.. people change.. nothing really is ever constant! x


ladybird: maybe talking about it would help..?


shoush: mmm it could be the case.. but not with the situation i was ranting about...


pinkchampagne: pure torture babe.. like u cannot imagine! x


enchanteurs: mmmm it does suck... but we really didn't try everything to make it work.. i guess we're both too involved with other things and don't have the time to have a propper talk..


Mi: aaah mi! everyone is flawed, even Fastidious Babe.. and the reason i had to put up with 27 mins of crap instead of having a propper talk was because i couldnt be bothered less.. the post its on the other hand.. i needed for someone else.. someone i actually care about and WANT to have the talk with..tu sais? ;) xx