Sunday, June 8, 2008

How do you deal?

They say that the secret to life is replacing one worry with another.. By distracting yourself from whatever was worrying you in the first place.. And moving on.

The problem arises when the distraction turns into another problem and u end up in a bigger rot than u were in to start with.

Two(hundred?) wrongs do not make a right.

So, deal with problems as they come along, do not lose focus (as easy and appealing it might seem to yield to distractions at the time) and have the courage to take matters into your hands.

When it comes to our own lives, we can do a lot, we have the key to solving every problem/dilemma if we chose to see it.

So when it seems that all doors are closed, look for a window somewhere.. Because when there's a will.. There is ALWAYS a way.

- to making things right, sans distractions xx

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ladywhisper said...

Impressive :)

I totally agree with you,, the best solution for any problem is to face it, no matter how big it is!! It makes us stronger..

Mi said...

Yeah.. Dealing with them.. i agree with lady whisper

The secret is to choose your distractions carefully ;P

Fastidious Babe said...

Ladywhisper: it sure does! xx

Mi: sometimes ur judgement gets impaired and u chose unwisely :)

nyxxie said...

in our company, i choose to deal with any problem then and there, but in the rest of my world i just let them ponder hoping they'd just disappear.. somehow

Fastidious Babe said...

ah, if only we were as efficient in our personal lives as we were in our professional one..

thinking positive does help though! x

..::Amu::.. said...

really impressive!!

I totally agree with ladywhisper...

A Journal Entry said...

i tend to wait until the last minute before facing a problem waiting for a miracle..
even though deep down inside i know that waiting only makes a problem worse

Fastidious Babe said...

amu: thank you!

a journal entry: its what we all do, just wish a problem would just go away.. when infact it rarely does! x