They say that: "Tact is the ability to describe others as they see themselves."
So does this apply to everyone around u? Can you not speak your mind to even those closest to u without poking their self-confidence?
And if u do state the obvious (to u) are u being rude and inconsiderate? Or open and positively proactive?
Being tactful, in my opinion, is to be able to say anything.. No matter how harsh, but delivering it with kid gloves.. Its the art of being smooth, and avoiding ripples whilst getting a point through..
- to saying it as it is sans 7asaseya! xx
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