My friend and I were at the movies a couple of weeks ago (watching The Women, crappy movie, plus u shouldn't be pro anything american right now) anyways.. So there's a part where this lady finds out that her husband is cheating on her and she has a sob fest with her friend..
My friend then turns to me and says: how come u never do that?
I shot her a look but I knew exactly what she was talking about..
Between the four of us, we've seen it all.. And I mean Everything. The bad the ugly and the unbelievable..
But I would always stay collected, and mind u, I have been dealt my own share of shitload.
I don't know what it is, but as much as I love sharing everything with my friends, I draw the line when it comes to emotions. I do listen to them, and I try my best to pull them out of an emotional slump..
Its just that when it comes to me, I would rather deal with it alone.
Today I came across a quote that said: "Keep ur emotions under control. The parent often fails at this point."
So is it a bad thing to be in control of our emotions? Or is it a way of having some control over our lives when we hardly ever have a say in what it holds?
Just a thought..
- to mm emotional tact?
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